I Spank Myself
Huh? No, not me. I'm talking about the luscious Lily Francfort. You remember her, right? Hailing from Quebec City and now part of the Montreal scene, Lily has landed her own site - I Spank Myself. I was lucky enough to gain access behind the curtain and, oh... you are going to love what's back there. Gorgeous HD videos. Spoons, paddle balls, belts, crops... you name it and she's used it. Lily is a stunning woman who loves to touch and spank her delicious body. There isn't anything fake about it. When she spanks, it makes a mark. She doesn't just tease her pussy, she lets go... completely. The pleasure is real. The pain is real. This is as good as it gets, folks - porn at its best. Graceful? Yes. Deeply sexual? Oh yeah.
Lily took time out to answer a few of my silly questions. Enjoy.
Q: What was life like growing up in beautiful Quebec City?
Quebec City is like a big village. I didn't like my childhood there very much. Unless it was some special event with my family, I was more of a loner girl. You know kids can just sense when you are different and I guess they did. I was very mature at a young age. Always observing people around me. A thing I liked about Quebec was the proximity of nature. I spent a lot of time in the woods close to my house.
Q: When did you first realize that you enjoyed being in control, sexually?
I always knew. I always have the control, even if I'm giving a blowjob to my boyfriend or I'm the submissive. Because I'm choosing to do this or that... to be a submissive or not.
Q: Which do you prefer... a Dominant or submissive role? Why?
I prefer the Dominant because I like to drive my submissive to their borders and make them experience totally letting go. I do let go, too, with my boyfriend, though. But in the everyday life (and since I'm a Pro Dominatrix), I do prefer being the Dominant. Maybe this is something related to the fact that when I was young, I never tried to take control of anything. And now I have that control and I like it. To feel empowered is a great feeling. But, that said... it's always with the consent of the other person.
Q: What goes through your mind as you build to an orgasm?
Depending on the situation, it can be anything. If I'm alone, I think about women, mostly. Or something related to BDSM, in which case I think about a male slave (or two... hehe). If I'm with a lover, I just focus on the present moment. His smell, his hands on my body, etc.,.
Q: Do you have a favorite spanking fantasy - maybe something you've read?
I don't have a specific fantasy about spanking. I just like to do it with whatever is near me and try it to experience the feeling. I love spontaneity and that's why I think I don't have much in the way of a fantasy. I would like to spank two guys at the same time. Yeah, that is what I would like as a fantasy.
Q: Speaking of favorites, what fetish sites do you recommend?
I like Fetlife because it's a bunch of kinky guys and girls and it is the better way to exchange and see raw and kinky pictures of people.
Q: Aside from Mad Blanket, where are you finding art in porn... if at all?
I like to go see the girls of SuicideGirls. And actually, I'm a hopeful on the site. :) I love to see those pretty women in a beautiful and creative context where they show their bodies with no taboos, sensuality and pin up style. it is a website where we celebrate a woman's body in every form.
Q: In one of your posts, you talked about the poetry in how you spank yourself. I thought it was a great comment. Can you elaborate on that a bit?
Spanking, or any BDSM play, is all about the connection between both participants. And as it is a sexual and sensual game, it is poetry. As we grow in the play, the tension, the softness or rudeness comes out. it is a choreography where both the participants elaborate on a story of pain and pleasure. The whip cracking is like beautiful music for the ears of the Dominant and the submissive, as well. Scratching someone's back is like making a beautiful drawing. Everything, for me, in BDSM play is like an art. Something you can explore and get better at. Spanking is like a dance. You spank with a certain tempo and you stop. And the time between spanks are bliss and torture. You never know when it will come, but you crave and fear it. So, not just poetry... it's a physical and sexual expression of everything beautiful.
An amazing woman. Visit Lily's sites to explore more of this physical and sexual expression.
Lily Francfort on the Web
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Reader Comments (1)
Reading how Lily answered the very question - the way she chose her words - made me instantly like and respect her.
Quebec City is such a quaint village all right! It's the closest to Europe I've been so far!
I LOVE the question about what one thinks about when building to an orgasm, wow! I want to go around asking everyone that! hee hee