Homemade Sex Tapes
I was out on various porn sites looking for good clips to review for Liquid Candy. It's not as easy as you'd think. It's actually somewhat of a chore since most porn is garbage. I came across a "Homemade Cumpilation" video (these titles are so sophomoric) and decided to check it out. I knew it was going to be too graphic for the site, but I'm a guy and guys love facials (visual thing). I hit play. Now... I'm not going to review it on Liquid Candy, but I'll give you my thoughts before delving into the real topic - sex tapes and the issue of trust.
- This dude has way too much time on his hands to be watching/editing this much porn
- I hate when a girl does the fake moan thing when you're about to cum on her face
- Gents... hush. We don't want to hear your freaky moans, either. It's really creepy.
Ok... what really went through my mind, though, was, "Wow... there are a lot of homemade sex tapes." Don't get me wrong, I've done it. I mean... who wouldn't film a threesome with Lucy and Peppermint Patty? Sex tapes are fine (and hot), but watching this "cumpilation"... I was struck by how many of them were posted to the Internet. I'm going to guess that most were of ex-girlfriends - which leads me to the point of this post. You don't do that to someone. You don't break up with your girlfriend and decide she's public property now. That's fucking disgusting. I just kept shaking my head when watching it, thinking about all these women who probably have no idea that intimate clips of them are floating around on the Web.
Ladies... before you let your guy film the two of you, ask yourself if you really trust him or not. Is he the kind of person who would either use it against you or think nothing of posting it to a site? Again... there's nothing wrong with taking pictures or setting up the tripod, but make sure the guy is trustworthy. The relationship will probably end at some point. What's he going to do with the tapes? Is he going to upload it to a PornHub? Is he going to break it out at a party and show his friends what a nasty little girl you were? In short... is he capable of being an asshole? If so, don't do it. Really. I hope most of the couples in that video are still together and both were into sharing it, but I doubt it. I know it's easy to get lost in the moment, but just as you'd want to practice safe sex... protect your reputation, as well.
Buddha
Reader Comments (2)
I'm not writing from personal experience but some smart women make sure to be the one that keeps the copy of the tape. The guy doesn't end up with a copy. She can do whatever she wants with the tape whenever she wants. That's the way to go, in my opinion.
Probably a wise idea. I would hope that most guys wouldn't share that kind of thing, but some obviously do. It can be very hot for couples to look back over the footage; I know from personal experience. Still... it has to stay within the relationship.