I was asked, recently, how it's possible to be as sexual as I am... and yet still be a kid at heart. I'll be honest... the question threw me a bit. Aren't we supposed to be multifaceted? Isn't that a good thing? I'm a red-blooded adult male. I enjoy sex and love the female body. That shouldn't be a shock. I also adore Where the Sidewalk Ends and was in tears watching the love scene in Up. Let me spin it another way. If a girl loves Disney, does that mean she's incapable of enjoying erotica or dropping the f-bomb now and then? Of course not. She's human. I've said this quite a bit (it's a favorite phrase), but we are the sum of our parts (or should be). I am many things. I'm a nice guy, but I can be a dick at times. I'd like to think I'm highly self-aware and reasonably mature, but I can be childish and ignorant. I seek out viral videos that make me smile (dogs welcoming soldiers home, random acts of kindness)... but I also watch porn (although not that often) and a movie like Raid 2 hoping to see an epic fight scene. Yin/yang. Life itself is all about balance. Darkness and light. Hot and cold. Everything in harmony.